It’s always the same story, boy loves girl or girl loves boy but they love someone else, you see it all the time in movies or on TV. Somehow by the end of show they are untied and live happily ever after. Can this fairy tale happen in real life? Is there a way to get someone to fall in love with you and heal your broken heart?
To getting that special someone to fall in love with you, here are 3 tips:
1. Common Interests – When people share a common pastime, they are often drawn to one another. Try to get to know them and find out their interests; are any of them yours too? Whether you share a love of hiking or reading the same kinds of books, you can build on it. Don’t ever lie about an interest, if the person ever found out, you would be breaking their trust and could jeopardize any further relationship. What’s more, you shouldn’t have transform “who” you are for someone you love as you never need to be someone you aren’t.
2. Qualities – When looking for a partner, people often look for individuals who have qualities they love or respect. A case in point, one of my friends will only date men who have a sense of humor, are non-smokers and over 35 years of age. Do you have qualities that the person you love, are attracted to? When you investigate prior relationships, are there any like qualities shared between ex-partners? Do you share any qualities with them? You can’t be just like his ex’s as there is a reason why they broken up, so be careful. That little something they were attracted to could be as simple as having the door being held open for them, holding their hand or made them feel special in some way.
3. Be a good friend – I believe a good relationship starts with friendship. You will become a very important part of their life as your friendship develops even though it may take a long time to get the person you love. You cannot stand still and wait for them but if they need you, be there for them, and be a good listener. You have to continue living and try dating other people. If you look like you are just there for them at every whim you will only look pathetic. By showing them that you have a life and date other people while you wait for them, as weird as it may sound, it may make them look differently at you and they may even find you more attractive.
By the person you love not loving you back, it’s difficult and heartbreaking. But it doesn’t have to be that way. You could have a fairy tale ending just like on TV or in the movies, but if these 3 tips don’t work, that person may not be the one for you and you will have to know when to move on and try to heal your broken heart.